Okay, you are in a real mess! Understand that you only have 14 days after the pronouncement to object and take the matter to the judge.
I presume that you don't have an attorney, since you don't mention one.
Not having an attorney is a big mistake in a custody dispute. There are preferences for "joint custody" which may not be best in your case. As such, you need to prepare to vigorously assert your custody claims and concerns to do what truly is in the child's best interests. You need to get with an aggressive family law attorney who has experience with custody and difficult cases. I know what these cases are like, having handled a number. You need to get moving ... as in today, to hire an attorney and handle this matter correctly from the outset. Or, you can try doing it yourself, and bumble through. Of the two options, which choice is best for your child, and your rights with that child? You should be able to get in with attorneys today, I know that I have some openings. So, check around, or call me.
Answered on Jun 21st, 2018 at 7:18 AM