From what you have written here, it certainly appears that you have a very good chance of getting custody of these children. You must file to establish custody in your favor, and if your daughter is agreeable, she can sign rights over to you before she passes away. If the father is in arrears, he will have a very difficult time proving he has the right to custody, and if he has not been in their lives, he will have even more difficulty. You will need to have him served whatever paperwork that is filed with the Court, but this is a very complex situation that requires a Family Law Specialist. That is important, and the Family Law Section of the Georgia Bar can assist with names in your area. That site is www.gabar.org.
Hope this helps.
Danielle D. D'Eor-Hynes, Family Law Center, LLC
www.hynesfamilylaw.org
Answered on Jun 12th, 2014 at 4:09 PM