I cannot imagine any state which would set custody on an unborn child. In addition, I have never known the father to get full custody of a newborn even when the parties were legally married. You should go to court after the child is born to get custody and give him some type of limited visitation until the child is older. And get child support at that hearing. The government does not interfere with child custody which is handled through the state. If he is in the Coast Guard, he will probably get money for her, which would go to you.
Answered on Aug 22nd, 2012 at 1:21 PM