First, whether you stay in your mother's home, or move in with your boyfriend and his parents, I would encourage you to finish your high school education.
You are legally an adult, whether you are still in high school or not. It is not necessary for you to be emancipated. You are legally responsible for your actions and any consequences of your actions. The Code of Virginia, section 1-204, defines the age of majority as 18.
Answered on Dec 04th, 2020 at 8:02 AM