It's actually hard to know what 'legal' means. If you mean is it enforceable, the answer is, unfortnately 'maybe.' If it becomes part of a divorce judgment or order, then it has court approval and is enforceable. If it is between the two of you only, it can be enforceable if it is fair in its inception, and fair when someone seeks to enforce it. Fair includes complete mutual financial disclosure, and your having an opportunity to consult your own lawyer. (Why didn't you? Were you being coerced?) There are other expectations as well. There is absolutely no magic in having a paper notarised, except that it is harder to deny that you signed it. Take your copy of the paper to a lawyer whom you retain, tell him or her all the facts, and get a professional review of whether the agreement can be enforced, and how to be rid of it, if necessary. Since your account sounds like you are being unduly 'pushed around,' you would do well to have a lawyer on your side.
Answered on Apr 30th, 2015 at 10:19 AM