Someone has to try to adopt the baby before a court will sign off on relinquishment of the father. If you want to adopt the baby, you could be the person. Adoption papers are filed, he signs off, etc. Then it can be done. BUT you are then the father for all purposes, including child support if you and girlfriend split up. Big decision for you to make.
Answered on Dec 02nd, 2012 at 6:14 PM