Anonymous:
The issue of whether or not to get a lawyer is always a tricky one for lawyers to answer. Generally, I would recommend that you have some form of representation if your spouse has a lawyer working for her own interests. It's always best to have somebody knowledgeable on your side regardless of the situation.
Even in a situation like this, where you state that there are no children or real property involved, it is possible that there are factors you have either overlooked or are not aware of, such as distribution of debts (an area that is often overlooked or not considered by Client or people handling their own divorces).
Finally, I want to make sure that it is understood that this answer does not create any legally binding relationship between us.
Sven Sommers
Law Office of Sven M. Sommers
www.ssommerslaw.com
Answered on Aug 19th, 2011 at 2:08 PM