I've heard in california there is a way to get divorced but decide on asset division later. True? And what is that called. thanks

Yes.  You can bifurcate the marital status and reserve the property division for a later time.  Bifurcation refers to dividing the case into two separate parts:  the divorce, and the remaining issues to be decided.  You can agree to end the marriage by stipulation in writing or in front of the judge in which case you would need to also submit a judgment.  If the other party is not cooperative, you can file a Motion to Bifurcate Status of Marriage. Cheryl L. Sommers (510) 659-9800