Quite simply, you will need to file a court case for paternity, which will address all of the issues you raise. Once that case is completed, you will then have orders to control the issues you talk about - if the order is properly drafted.
Quite simply, find an experienced family law attorney who you feel comfortable with, and hire that person to handle all of the problems and details associated with such a case.
Answered on Aug 20th, 2015 at 7:28 AM