Before your daughter gets any older, her father needs to be established so that she is not exposed to questions and speculation later on. Also, she is entitled to financial support from both parents and in order to have that, her father needs to be known. As to visitation, the courts look to the best interest of the child. If he has waited 19 months to see her that should be considered (generally, it means he would have very limited visitation at first). If you have information that he is dangerous or unstable, the court will consider the evidence and make orders based on her best interest with a goal that she have a meaningful relationship with both her mother and her father, so long as it is safe.
Answered on Dec 14th, 2012 at 10:49 PM