You should consider that you have the right to file for child support. He may file for visitation. These are rights that are not related (meaning he has a right to visitation whether you seek support or not). The arrears for child support only run to the date you file a petition. That means you won't get "back support" for any time that you wait to file your petition. You should talk to a lawyer near you to get a full assessment of your case. Good luck!
Answered on Aug 28th, 2013 at 4:10 PM