my ex girlfriend is getting locked up in 4 days i am not legitamized our daughter is 8 yrs old what should or what are my options.

You should contact an attorney to file a petition to legitimate your daughter.  Diona M. Potter Potter Sieg, LLC DISCLAIMER This answer is not intended to, nor does it create, an attorney-client relationship. It is not intended to constitute legal advice.  It is provided solely for informational purposes.  Do not assume that the legal theories I mention that pertain to GA will apply in your State. The facts of each case are different, and it is therefore critical for you to consult with a qualified attorney with whom you can share information which can be thoroughly assessed, so that you can get competent legal advice from which you can make an informed decision.