Your fiance has rights. He needs to pursue them through the court so that there are clear orders for when he has the children and when mom has the children based on the best interests of the children. A parent has prior over a grandparent, under the law. Regardless of the reasons, if he has not spent time with the children in awhile, it may be in the best interest of the children that there be a transition period. This will depend on the current circumstances.
Your fiance needs to be prepared to follow through. Having an attorney and other supports at the beginning of his case can help him to that. He can also learn how to deal with mom so that, in the future, he will know when he needs and attorney or can use court services to have the court orders followed.
If the children are currently living with grandmother, do you know whether she has been given any legal authority? Schools and doctors are supposed to make sure that the person that has the care of the children has the right to make decisions for them.
Current Arizona statutes recognize the importance of having parenting orders that are followed so the children have a predictable schedule and regular access with parents. Since mom moved out of state, she should be ordered responsible for her costs to see the children.
The specific facts will be important in deciding what options your fiance has. I encourage he meet with an attorney. Our firm handles family law cases and offers an initial 1/2 hour consult at no charge. Marie Zawtocki, Attorney 480-655-0733
Answered on Dec 21st, 2015 at 9:34 AM