my huband and i got a va home he now wants to do bankutry 13 and i just want to sell the house to get the equaty out of it before he does it

You might want to get the title or full ownership of the house yourself, and seperate your assessts prior to him declaring bankruptcy. I am not a bankruptcy specialist so you will have to speak with a bankruptcy lawyer. However, if you have concerns under Family Law you can Feel free to contact my office and speak with a case manager at 877-866-8665 or email help@smsattorneys.com to go over your options. Licensed in New York and New Jersey. Looking forward to hearing from you.