The proceeds from your home can be split up any way the two of you agree. That said, you should consult with an attorney. Since you owned the home prior to marriage, it's possible that under the law of equitable distribution that you should get more from it in a divorce distribution. I'm guessing that you have other assets and/or marital debt as well. You should go over all of it with an attorney to make sure you are protecting your claims to those as well and to assess how the sale of the home will impact those other financial matters if and when you do decide to move forward with a divorce.
Answered on Sep 06th, 2011 at 12:43 PM