My husband& I are separating starting our divorce paperwork.We didn't have a family plan order but we made our own schedule and he wont let me see him

   When a married couple splits up and has children, until there is a court order for timesharing, techincally both parents have equal rights to the children.  Although your texts regarding a  schedule may bear some weight in front of a judge,  again there may be reasons why a verbal or "texted" agreement should not continue.  For example: when he doesn't get his way he damages your property-those could be grounds for a domestic violence injunction against him.  Another, for example, is he lives with a person with a substance abuse problem and it could be harmful to your children, especially if that person is around the children when your husband is not supervising.    What you need to do is get in front of a judge to establish a time sharing schedule, or at least a temporary schedule.  If the divorce is filed already you can request  a hearing in front of a judge to do this. However, you must first file a motion requesting what you are seeking to have the judge do.    Belows is a link to some forms that may assist you with the motions.  Some counties have personel who can help you with this as well.  Once you file the motion then you should call the judge's office, speak to his or her judicial assistant, who should be able to help you schedule a hearing. https://www.flcourts.org/core/fileparse.php/533/urlt/947a.pdf   Good luck, and don't be bullied!  The kids  are both of yours, but not sure why you'd agree to a schedule where he has them more than 50% of the time.   Cindy Vova Law Offices of Cindy S. Vova, P.A. Broward/Boca Raton 954-316-3496/561-962-2785 info@vovalaw.com