QUESTION
My husband is not on birth certificate he from India and I decided not to put on there now child is 9 he just abandoned us day green card came ?
Asked on Feb 05th, 2021 on Child Support - Oklahoma
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So my husband and I together 5 years lived on off together 2007-2012 had daughter first 6 months I lived my moms then moved in with him that 2012 he not on birth certificate but literally he came my mom house 2-3 time day during pregnancy and all 6 months then he moved us in with him we officially married in 2014 fast forward 2020 my husband got green card and just disappear no call no anything bill turned off 2 day after he left I was a stay at home mom whole relationship and marriage per his request now he came back for 2 months to do taxes I didn’t realize that at the time then left again more month went but no word finally because of tax matter he called since has been transfer money to my bank from his to pay bills and stuff daughter need but hadn’t seen the child in almost a year which all this really has just tramatized both of us like he really is not the man I married but now he just stringing me along and I’m tiered of it he has always been her sole provider what r my option?
1 ANSWER
You should meet with a lawyer in or near the county where you live. Filing for dissolution of marriage (a/k/a divorce) and including a a discription of the circumstances suggesting that it may be necessary to obtain permission to obtain service via publication, seeking spousal support, payment of attorney fees, custody, child support, restricting any potential visitation to being restricted until certain conditions are met, property division, etc. would all be appropriate. You will need to also give notice to DHS.
It is often possible to obtain an initial consultation FREE of any charge, if you con't have funds to hire a lawyer, you may try contacting "Legal Aid Services" which often can represent on a Pro Bono (FREE) basis.
Answered on Feb 08th, 2021 at 8:48 AM