My husband wants a divorce and lives in Nevada, I am currently in the UK and do not want a divorce what happens when heI receive the paperwork if I sa

First, do not be bullied.  If you don't "sign the papers," there may be consequences (i.e., he could take default and obtain a default divorce) but you are not going to made to go back to Nevada. It might be in your best interest to consult with an attorney, there or here, to evaluate whatever issues exist in the case.  For the moment, check out the "Grounds and Jurisdiction," "Property Division," "Spousal Support" and any other pages of our firm website that look like they might be relevant to your situation -- it will give you some background as to how those issues work.