my name is on the mortgage solely the deed is in my husband and my name can i remove my name from deed and have my husband name only

You can't remove your name from the Deed without also having the mortgage refinanced. In your mortgage paperwork it will have a clause that says you are in default and your mortgage is due in full if you do this. When you took the loan you were saying to the bank that you had and would maitain an interest in the home.