It sounds as if there are no parenting rights that have been established. The ball is in their court. Next time he or they come around, feel free to say, "sorry, not today." You don't really have the right to know what he is up to, and he has no rights at all (other than to go to court to obtain parenting time and start paying child support). If you need help, find a law firm that has extensive experience in representing unmarried couples.
Answered on Aug 14th, 2011 at 12:26 PM