It sounds like you will need to speak with the lawyers involved. You will need to know how much money your parents left behind for you & your siblings, what is currently in the bank account and if possible, the guardianship papers that were filed with the court.
You may need to hire an attorney to represent your interests. This is called a 'contested' matter in the area of estate planning.
Answered on Aug 19th, 2013 at 2:29 PM