My wife and I are getting divorced after 13 years of marriage due to her infidelity while I'm deployed

Im deployed right now, she treated me pretty bad over the last 3 months. She started to act different/give me clues, and even her family saw a different person she became; her brother actually asked me if she had someone else. We got into a big fight I asked her if she wanted a divorce, without hesitation she said yes (which was a first). We decided to get divorced, and she told me I was going to keep my son since her schedule at work changes every 6 weeks. So we kept talking as regular friends but I still tried to win her back, still getting treated pretty bad. Well a month passed and she would still give me clues, so one day I logged into our outdoor camera and saw her taking selfies and I thought they were for me, called her and got into a fight, so figured they weren't meant for me. I decided to search on ways to catch her infidelity. So I logged into Voxer and saw text, voice messages, and images about her and her "future husband". We got a son. To be continued, more to the story