You must establish paternity in a court of law, and a petition needs to be filed in the county where you live. Paternity will be officially established, child support determined, and custody and parenting time will be established. This is complicated, and an attorney is advisable. The determinations that are made at the first court sessions are extremely important, and are sometimes difficult to un-do at a later date. The Court will make its decisions based on best interests of the child. You will be able to explain to the judge what you believe to be the deficiencies in the parenting skills of the father. There are two types of custody in Indiana - legal and physical. Legal is whether the parents share in the decision making regarding the major aspects of the child's life: religion, education, and medical. Physical is where the child spends mosts nights.
You are smart in getting this established early on. Good luck.
Answered on Dec 26th, 2016 at 5:22 AM