Unfortunately, your situation is pretty unclear. It is not clear when orders were issued, how long the son has refused to attend and what, if anythng, has been done abouit it since then. These cases are all highly fact-specific. Theoretically, the other parent could file a contempt motion, asserting that you are blocking visitation, so do not allow yourself to be put in that position. If the existing order is not working for some reason, you can always move to modify it; the rules governing such motions are posted here. But the reality is that what you probably need is at least a consultation with, and probably to employ, a family law specialist to look at every apect of your situation and give you more certain advice than you can get from an e-mail.
Answered on Mar 13th, 2017 at 7:15 AM