Well, you might be able to go into an emergency room. I don't know the impact of doing that before you actually go into labor. I do know that if you don't have proper prenatal care, there is a good chance the baby is going to have problems. Do you have a green card? If not, you may have to go back to your country to deliver the baby. It is hard to give you an answer without my personal biases creeping into this. A child does not ask to be born. So, if you allow yourself to get pregnant, I think that you assume the responsibility to give that baby the best possible chance at a normal, healthy life. I also think that you assume the responsibility to give that baby the best possible education and/or training skills so that it can become a self-sufficient, responsible adult. Anything less is a breach of that parental responsibility.
Answered on Sep 13th, 2012 at 4:29 PM