This is an odd question. The couple was not married. Unless the court has been involved, the father has no rights other than to go to court and get some rights. Yes, that is correct. His right is to go to court. That is all. You suggest there is a custody battle. If that were the case, the court would have set down the guidelines for parenting time, including, either party leaving the state. You say there is still a custody battle going on. Until the court rules, all of the father's rights are whatever permission the mother gives as far as parenting time (not custody), and any other rights are all potential rights, he may get in the future. (Having fathered a child out of wedlock is quite different than if they were married, and the signing of the Recognition of Parentage - ROP, does not give the father custody rights, or even parenting time rights. It means he owes child support and can go to court to get rights with the child . The rest of what you relate is very strange. A notarized letter just means a letter where the authenticity of the signature is presumed correct. So what? The custody is not 50/50. The mother has 100% legal and physical unless the court has said otherwise. Kids are not like cars, with the title being assigned, from one person to another, even with a notarized signature. Again, how did he get the right to take the kid out of the state? If the court was not involved, the mother should not have allowed it. If the court was involved, why on earth didn't the mother's lawyer limit where parenting was to occur? This a a giant mess of a debacle.
Answered on Oct 23rd, 2011 at 5:48 PM