My first question is, where is your attorney in all of this? Your attorney can provide detailed answers that I can only guess at.
As to the house, there is a chance that he could be awarded some of the equity in the home. The same is true for your retirement programs.
This is where you need to have an aggressive and experienced family law attorney working for you to minimize your potential losses. You may well be able to argue the abandonment, and hence significantly lower what he can get.
Your situation involves major factual and procedural issues. These are issues that we can discuss. If you are interested in pursuing the matter further, I offer an initial 1/4 hour consultation without charge, and a 1/2 hour consultation for $50. If you want to set an appointment for the initial consultation, feel free to telephone, or email, my office.
Don't wait any longer, give a call and let's getting working to protect your interests.
David R. Hartwig
801-486-1715
Answered on Sep 24th, 2019 at 7:45 AM