Seeking quality of life for family and self but have a huge issue. Please help. What can I do with a wife that doesnt want to relocate for the better

Ok. most of the posts I see on here are related to custody or divorce but I am not in this situation, YET. I am an extremely hard working man that has been working in the Field service IT profession for a long time. I was diagnosed with Coronary Artery Disease and had a 99% blockage of my left coronary artery. I have since been experiencing some other discomfort but I push forward and continue to work hard to provide for my family. I love my family and strive to provide everyday. Not saying that I haven't struggled in my marriage and have had my ups and downs but I continue to do the right thing. I have been striving for quality of life which I have been neglected of but my company has been trying to do something for me and help by giving me 2 offers to give me this quality. The only thing is, my family and I would have to relocate (I have no issue with) to San Diego where they would have me work in an office environment with a raise. My wife says she doesn't want to go!! HELP..