Should I contest this split and seek a judgment to split all our equitable property equally including pensions, 401k’s and property?

My wife of the past 16 years has filed for divorce. I’ve had no verifiable income for the past 7 years of our 20+ years together. When I was working for someone else we were making very good money together which we used to buy our current residence. The last 4 years we opened a business in her name. It has not made much money and cost more to run than we took in. I worked the business without pay while she has advanced in her job and is earning a very good salary now and wants to buy me out of the equitable distribution with a 60/40 split in her favor due to supporting me through the divorce. She will give me the failing business and continue to support me till the divorce is finial.