i don't know what county you live in, so i can't comment on the particular procedures of your local court. but in general, you have to file a petition with the court asking the court to issue an order that says your son has primary physcial custody of the child. even if mom and date sign a notarized statement saying dad has custody, a court order that confirms the notarized statement is important.
good luck!
Answered on Feb 09th, 2017 at 11:32 AM