It is always difficult to do the cost/benefit for such matters -- your choices are few. You can force the issue by filing a motion in family court and getting an order for compliance on pain of sanctions, fees, and contempt (be prepared to pay whatever alimony you have been holding up). Or you could just not send any more money -- knowing that she has 6 years to drag you back to court to get that money (plus interest) and that by then the property you want will probably be gone. This is a "you snooze, you lose" situation -- if the stuff is important to you, send a final letter giving a deadline, and then file your motion to force the turnover, and do it all soon. Three years is already pushing things.
Answered on Jun 18th, 2014 at 12:48 PM