You should contact a lawyer near where your sister lives, if it is in a different place. If there has not been an adoption, legally you have the right to simply go take your son back; however, this is not likely in his best interest, given that you have not been parenting him for his infancy. If you can not get your sister to agree to a a planned return to your care, you should start a custody action and ask to have a plan put in place to have him eventually returned. Be prepared to have this take some time and also for the possibility of other services in place to make sure that you are not going to abandon your child again. Because your sister has been acting as his parent, she would also have the right to ask the court to give her custody and/or terminate your rights, since you have not been involved. You really need to speak to a lawyer and soon. There are far too many issues to fully meet your needs on this forum.
Answered on Sep 24th, 2011 at 12:22 PM