It's pretty clear that the relationship is toxic, and you are on notice that you can't trust your ex; when you were divorce is not clear from your note. Your question, however, and your current status, is not clear. You should write out a clear timeline, as it is hard to see what happened, in what order, and why, and then consult with a family law specialist as to whatever your actual questions are. If there are emails or texts indicating that he invited you back to the hose, or said he was dismissing the restraining order, preserve them.
Answered on Sep 10th, 2020 at 5:33 PM