First, there can be no termination proceeding under these circumstances until an adoption is filed. Is it your plan to get married? This would show a more stable relationship and thus make it more likely that the home study would recommend adoption and termination. A court can order termination if it finds it to be appropriate under the circumstances. If you were married, you'd have a strong case. Right now you have a less strong case. You don't say if there is a child support order. If there isn't one, why haven't you gotten one? The father has no obligation to pay if there is no order. Please consult with an attorney as your situation is complex.
Answered on Oct 31st, 2016 at 6:49 PM