What most people refer to as custody is much more complicated that than in Washington-we have parenting plans and residential schedules that address not only when the child will be living with each parent, but also a lot about who makes important decisions regarding how the child is raised (and unless there are reasons to restrict one parent's participation, it's usually joint). The criteria for establishing a permanent parenting plan can be found in RCW 26.09.187 (http://apps.leg.wa.gov/rcw/default.aspx?cite=26.09.187 ), but I think you would really benefit from discussing this with an attorney.
Answered on Dec 20th, 2012 at 1:55 PM