It sounds as if you do not have a custody court order. If that is the case, you should get one, so that your rights are protected. You do that by filing a custody complaint and following your local court's procedures for custody cases. If there's no order, you and the children's father both have 100% custody and either of you may take the children at any time and not allow the other to have contact, since you have no order to enforce. If you do have a court order, you should seek to have it modified.
Answered on Jul 03rd, 2012 at 2:20 PM