The standard in NC is the "best interests of the child". Parents are given an initial presumption that they are fit and the preferred custodian, so you would have to overcome that burden by presenting at trial all the facts, evidence, testimony, exhibits, legal arguments, etc. (with or without a lawyer, but obviously with a lawyer is always best) and the judge would decide in his/her best discretion.
Answered on Feb 21st, 2014 at 11:52 AM