First, he is not the child's legal father since you were not married to him and he is not on the birth certificate. Once he gets out, in order to have any rights to the child he would have to do a DNAS test to prove he is the father. Two things: you can move and not give him a forwarding address. Stop communicating with him. Don't accept calls, change your phone number if you have to and don't write to him or call him. More important - shortly before it's time for his release (three months before) get a domestic violence protection order. If any of his threats have been in writing (e-mail, text, etc) you can use that as evidence. You can get a domestic violence advocate in your county to help you with putting together the petition. You need to include your children in the petition. Also be very specific about the crimes of which he has been convicted. If these are violent crimes it will make a difference. If at all possible, get a lawyer.
Answered on Nov 28th, 2016 at 5:30 AM