There are two separate issues. You need a parenting plan as part of the divorce to allocate residential time and decision making authority for the two children of the marriage. You have to say you're pregnant by someone else. This other man can prove his paternity (DNA test) and your husband can deny it. This will establish parentage for the baby, impose the rights and responsibilities of parenthood and that man and release your husband from any responsibility for that child.
Answered on Jan 17th, 2014 at 6:57 AM