You are constrained to continue to comply with the custody and visitation order which is currently in effect. If you wish to change that you should engage in attorney and bring a motion for modification. At age 10 it is possible, even probable that your son will be interviewed confidentially regarding his position on visitation. In any case, until there is a modified order, it is up to you to make sure the current order is adhered to.
Answered on Apr 17th, 2013 at 7:40 PM