The State Welfare office may indeed not be doing its job right, but they will not care about that as it relates to chasing you (and the child's father) to recoup money they have expended for welfare relating to that child (if yoiu report Welfare fraud, it might get prospectively corrected). You can request a hearing, and see if you can get the payments reduced, but from the information you supplied, it does not seem readily apparent how you might prevent an obligation from being owed, or collected, short of a full legal termination of parental rights -- and even that will only operate prospectively, not as to any existing debts.
Answered on Feb 06th, 2013 at 4:15 PM