First things first: retain an experienced family law attorney in your locality. In an important matter it's almost always worth the cost. Your lawyer will likely suggest that you start a legal action in your own county VERY SOON. Presumably you will seek custody and primary placement. Your lawyer will also be able to talk to the police in the mother's state of residence and likely dial them down quite a lot.
Answered on Sep 14th, 2015 at 12:08 AM