If you know for certain the ID number is fake, you should be justified in believing that the day care is not being paid, even if you are provided questionable receipts from members of her family. You have two choices: (a) refuse to pay her anything for the claimed day care expense until you are satisfied that there are "real" day care expenses being paid or until she takes some action in court (at which time you can defend yourself and force her to prove that she has actually paid day care expenses) or (b) file a motion with the court to force her to provide adequate proof that she is paying the expense. The problem with paying family members day care expense is that you have no way to prove that the family member isn't just giving the money back to the mother or that they aren't even providing the care.
Answered on Dec 05th, 2011 at 9:20 AM