It doesn't matter where you got married. You can file in the state in which you live since there don't appear to be either children or property in common. You do have to serve her. You can also file in the state in which she lives since you can subject yourself voluntarily to the jurisdiction of that state. If there are children in common (under the age of 18) then you should file in the state in which the children live.
Answered on Feb 20th, 2015 at 5:45 PM