If the child's father is willing to relinquish his rights as you say, he can do a voluntary termination of rights in the context of an adoption, once the adoption is filed. In every adoption, a home study has to be done prior to the adoption being finalized. You should see an attorney to do the adoption. The home study may be a bit problematic since you are not married to the potential adoptive father, making the relationship somewhat less stable. It will lead to a fair number of questions by the social worker as to why you're not married if you've lived together all these years. So be prepared.
Answered on May 05th, 2017 at 8:35 AM