You need to file a Petition to Establish Parental Relationship to establish yourself as the father and address custody, visitation and support for the child. Unfortunately, you will have to file this where the mom now lives. Verbal arrangements are usually not followed so you actually need court orders.
Child support is based on both incomes (mom & dad) as well as the amount of time spent with the child.
Answered on Oct 19th, 2014 at 4:56 PM