File for custody of the child immediately. In the absence of a custody order, the biological mother has superior rights to the child, notwithstanding what may appear in the father's will. For a grandparent to prevail in a custody battle with a biological parent, the grandparent must show that the biological parent is unfit or that some exceptional circumstance exists. If either of those factors can be demonstrated, then the court would determine custody based on the best interest of the child. I strongly recommend that you consult with an experienced family law attorney at your earliest convenience.
Answered on Feb 15th, 2012 at 10:57 AM