It is not clear from your post exactly what you're asking. It is common for a lawyer to suggest filing a counterclaim in a custody action. That way, when you go to court, both parties can ask for complete relief, that is, they can both ask for custody or child support or whatever other issues there are. As for the specific facts of your case, I can't offer any further advice since I don't know all the facts. You should make sure your lawyer knows all the facts you've written here, and that the judge is made aware of them as well. All facts and circumstances will be taken into consideration in making a decision on custody and visitation.
Answered on Oct 14th, 2013 at 4:00 PM