Your son is a 30 year old man who had sex with a woman who was of questionable stability. I appreciate your desire to be supportive of your son but he needs to take responsibility. If the child is born in VA (PA?) that state will have the sole jurisdiction to determine child custody and child support orders. If she comes to California and has the baby here, a California court will have sole jurisdiction over these issues. Guideline child support will be based on the laws of the state that has jurisdiction, and they may be different. Factors such as income, tax deductions, and timeshare with the child will all impact the amount he has to pay. I suggest that he consult with a family law attorney in person to discuss his options. He may also want to contest paternity and each state again has differing laws about how long he has to do that.
Answered on Dec 22nd, 2015 at 3:52 PM