What is the maximum penalty for making a partial payment in Alimony?

I would like specifics. For example, maximum jail time, incurring court costs and fees. At what point, in your opinion, do the parties cost justify no longer pumping water from a dry well. The receiving party of alimony will never work full time. She is bold enough to tell me that. She knows how jacked up the system is. Gavron warnings seems unless in practice to enforce or remove alimony. Surely, not ever person winds up jail trying to support two families on one income. That business model of using alimony as means of revenue does sustain itself for any length of time. It is too expensive to try to fight lowering or removing Spousal Support using an attorney in court as well. What is the worst thing to look out for when I represent myself?